ALIVE women’s retreat · Bali · 11–17 March 2027 · Find out more
An 8-week 1:1 journey for high-achieving women who are done repeating the same painful, toxic relationship patterns, and are ready to do the deep inner reprogramming work to attract healthy partnership.
Using my HEAL Methodology, we’ll work together to get clear on who your ideal partner is, how and where to meet him, and how to heal and align yourself to this high-quality man.
You’re smart, successful, and admired by many. You know how to excel in your career, your health, your looks, and your friendships. You are the woman other people come to for advice, for strength, for perspective. And yet when it comes to love, you keep ending up back in the same painful place.
You cycle through relationships with men who are emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or - worse - men who diminish you, manipulate you, or treat you in ways you would never tolerate in any other area of your life. Men you know aren’t right for you. And yet you stay. You make excuses for them. You believe in their potential. You try harder.
Meanwhile your friends are getting married, having babies, building lives with partners who actually show up for them. And you’re exhausted - not just from the relationships themselves, but from the relentless effort of trying to figure out what you keep “doing wrong”.
So you start questioning your worth. You tell yourself that if you were thinner, more successful, less emotional, more easygoing, if you just lowered your standards or changed who you are, then maybe you’d finally attract someone who stays. Someone who’s healthy. Someone who chooses you without conditions.
Here’s the truth: you don’t need to lower your standards or shrink yourself. You need to understand why your nervous system keeps choosing this unhealthy familiar. And then you need to rewire it.
Because the reason you keep ending up with unavailable, toxic, or emotionally damaging men isn’t a mindset problem. It isn’t a strategy problem. It isn’t even a self-awareness problem - because you have plenty of that. It’s a nervous system programming problem.
And almost no relationship coach is working at this level. Which is exactly why so many brilliant, self-aware women do all the work - the therapy, the journaling, the courses, the healing - and still find themselves back in the same dynamic, wondering what they’re missing.
What they’re missing is this: your attraction patterns, your tolerance for hurtful behaviour, your capacity to make excuses for men who hurt you, your beliefs about what you deserve in love - none of that was consciously chosen. It was wired into you in childhood through your earliest experiences of love, safety, and belonging.
Those experiences created neural pathways your nervous system still runs on today - subconscious beliefs about your worth, somatic responses that pull you toward the familiar (even when the familiar is painful), parts of you that learned to equate love with anxiety, with earning, with self-abandonment, or with pain.
And your empathy - one of your greatest gifts - became part of the trap. Your compassion and understanding of these men’s wounds have led you to give sympathy where it was not owed and which led to self-abandonment.
You see who they could be. And so you stay with men who don’t deserve you, not because you’re weak, but because you’re wired to.
Mental strategising doesn’t rewire a nervous system. Positive affirmations don’t heal an attachment wound. And intellectual awareness alone doesn’t change the subconscious beliefs driving your choices in love.
That requires something different. That requires a deep somatic reprogramming. Going beneath the surface to where the patterns actually live.
That’s the work we do together. And it’s the only work that actually creates lasting transformation.
I’m Monica Wadwa - a certified relationship coach, author of Queen Treatment, and speaker.
I’ve sat across from hundreds of women who are deeply self-aware, deeply capable, and deeply stuck when it comes to love. Smart women. Successful women. Women who had done years of personal development work and still couldn’t break the same relational cycle.
I know that place intimately because I lived there too.
What changed for me wasn’t more journaling or more affirmations. It was going into the somatic, subconscious, energetic layer where the real wiring lives. The parts of us shaped in childhood. The nervous system responses formed in early relationships. The beliefs about love that run quietly in the background, pulling us toward the familiar, even when the familiar hurts.
That’s the work I do with women. Not surface level. Not theory. Real, targeted, deeply personalised healing that rewires your relationship with yourself, and by doing that, rewires who you attract and how you love.
In order to provide you with the deepest healing which creates the lasting change necessary to truly transform your love life, I support you through 1:1 coaching each week, which incorporates my combined knowledge and expertise in therapeutic modalities like IFS (Internal Family Systems), Inner Child Work, Parts Work, Somatic Therapy, and CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy).
My mission in life is to help more people form healthy, loving relationships with others, beginning with their relationship with themselves.
It will be my honour to guide you on your path to love.
After every session, I feel like my eyes have been opened to a whole new shadow side within myself, and with Monica’s coaching I can see exactly what I have to work on and how to do it.
HEAL for Love is not right for everyone. Because of this, I want to ensure the right women are on the coaching program so you’re not wasting your time undergoing training that won’t benefit you and your specific needs.
Four pillars. Eight weeks. One complete transformation in how you relate to yourself and to love.
Using therapeutic modalities including Internal Family Systems (IFS), Parts Work, Shadow Work, and nervous system regulation, we go beneath the surface to identify and heal the root emotional wounds, childhood conditioning, and relational patterns that have been unconsciously driving your love life.
Drawing on feminine energy embodiment practices, mother wound healing, sexual polarity and sexual energy work, we reconnect you to your core essence at a physiological and energetic level, restoring the authentic expression of your feminine nature that has been suppressed or disconnected.
Through Higher Self alignment work, relationship blueprint mapping, and guided Queen Self-Concept embodiment, we establish a clear, values-driven vision of who you are becoming, creating the psychological foundation and personalised self-mastery roadmap from which all deep inner work and conscious relationship attraction begins.
Through Inner Child reparenting, self-forgiveness work, and authenticity integration, you’ll dismantle the patterns of hiding, shrinking, and self-abandonment in relationships, emerging with unshakeable self-worth and self-love, embodied confidence, and the psychological wholeness to attract and sustain the conscious relationship you deserve.
Before we dive into the deep inner healing work, you need to get radically clear on your desires, in love and in life. Through relationship blueprinting and Higher Self alignment work, you’ll gain clarity on who your ideal partner is, where to meet him, and how to align your habits, values and essence to become his energetic match. This foundational clarity is what gives every step of the inner work that follows its direction and purpose.
This is where the deepest psychological work happens - healing the childhood conditioning, trauma responses and subconscious beliefs that have been quietly running your love life from beneath the surface. Through therapeutic modalities including IFS, Parts Work and nervous system regulation, we go to the root of what has been keeping you stuck and free you from it, for good.
With the deeper healing work underway, you are now ready to reconnect with your feminine essence at a level that goes far beyond surface-level confidence. Through somatic embodiment practices, mother wound healing, sexual energy awareness and sexual polarity work, we restore your relationship with your own softness, sensuality and magnetic energy — bringing you back home to the most alive, sexually embodied and authentic version of yourself.
The final stage is about integration, wholeness and stepping into the world as the most whole, confident and self-assured version of yourself. Through Inner Child reparenting, self-forgiveness work and authenticity integration, we dismantle the patterns of hiding, shrinking and self-abandonment that have been present in your relationships, so that you complete this process with unshakeable self-love, self-worth, embodied confidence and the wholeness to attract and sustain the conscious relationship you deserve.
Within this powerful 8-week container you will receive:
One deep, fully-personalised session every week for 8 weeks. Every session is built around you - your specific needs, relational patterns, and where you are in your journey. We will meet via video call to do the necessary inner healing work to truly transform your love life from the inside out.
Custom practices designed specifically for you each week, to take the session work into your body and your daily life, where the integration actually happens.
Real-time access to me between sessions. For the moments when something surfaces, when you need a reframe, or when you’re in the middle of a situation and need a grounding presence. This allows you to get personalised guidance, immediate support, and customised feedback within office hours, ensuring you stay confident, empowered, and on track in your love life for the full 8-week period.
A copy of my published book, Queen Treatment, in ebook format, packed with all my knowledge and expertise about dating, relationships, and female empowerment.
You’ll learn how to shift from insecurity to confidence, release limiting beliefs, and navigate modern dating from a place of power and self-worth.
By using this guide alongside your coaching, you’ll gain a step-by-step roadmap to attract high-quality, devoted partners, while falling in love with yourself and your life along the way.
84-Page Interactive Workbook with Journaling Prompts and Meditation Links
This includes guided exercises, reflection prompts, and direct links to meditations that complement each module. It’s designed to help you deepen your self-discovery, reinforce your learning, and embody your Queen Energy in every aspect of dating. By actively engaging with the workbook, you’ll gain clarity, confidence, and practical tools to attract the partner you truly deserve.
A 20-minute guided meditation on self-love for you to listen to every morning and evening to deepen in self-worth and love for yourself and your life.
13-Module Online Dating Course with over 50 videos, and information guides, journal prompts, and guided meditations.
These are easy-to-follow video lessons and resources that you can complete at your own pace. This means you decide when and where to do this part of the learning without feeling overwhelmed by long videos.
Included within the 8 week coaching program, you will also receive my 13-module online course - Date Like a Queen. This course includes over 50 easy-to-follow videos, information guides, journal prompts, and guided meditations, covering the following topics:
In this module, I will introduce myself and some foundational principles for this online course. We will focus here on your mindset, as this sets the foundation for all other action steps throughout this coaching program. You will empower yourself by adopting an abundance mindset in love and reclaim your role of powerful co-creator of your dating life.
Learn exactly what makes a man a “king” versus a “prince” and get crystal clear on the attributes your ideal partner will have. This module helps you define your standards, recognise relationship readiness in others, and avoid settling, so you attract the partner who truly matches your worth.
Discover practical strategies for meeting high-quality men both offline and online without compromising your standards. This module teaches you where and how to connect with the type of men who are at your level, making dating intentional and effective.
Here is when we start the process of you stepping into queen energy by assessing how you show up in love. Learn to embody wholeness, authenticity, and self-respect so that you attract the type of partner you deserve.
Examine your emotional availability and uncover hidden blocks that may be keeping love at a distance. This module ensures you’re fully open and ready to receive the relationship you desire, so you don’t sabotage your chances unconsciously.
Understand the power of your innate feminine energy in dating and how to embody it authentically. Learn how to balance softness, magnetism, and strength, so you naturally create sexual polarity and therefore sexual attraction with the men you date, without compromising your values.
Master your Queen Energy when dating. From mindset to flirting, from first dates to intimacy, this module teaches you how to hold your power, create a radiant presence about you, and establish healthy boundaries - so you become irreplaceable and unforgettable to your dates.
Identify and release unhealthy relationship patterns that have held you back. Learn how to break cycles of attraction to unavailable or unhealthy partners, allowing you to cultivate committed, fulfilling connections moving forward.
Transform the internal stories that have been sabotaging your love life. By challenging and rewriting limiting beliefs, you’ll develop a mindset that naturally attracts high-quality men and aligns with your highest self.
Deepen your loving relationship with yourself so you attract a partner into your life who treats you with respect, value and true love. Through practices like radical self-acceptance, boundary-setting, and self-care, you’ll cultivate unshakeable worthiness, making you irresistible to the right partner.
Explore how your childhood experiences have shaped your adult relationships. By understanding and healing these past conditionings, you can stop repeating unhealthy relational patterns and open yourself to healthy, true love.
Learn about attachment theory and how it affects your dating life. Gain the tools to become securely attached, creating stable and lasting relationships while attracting partners who are emotionally available and committed.
Develop resilience and emotional strength in the face of rejection, ghosting, or breakups. This module teaches you when to walk away, how to learn the lessons from love lost, and how to detach with grace—so you maintain your queen energy no matter what.
A deeply transformative 13-Module Online Course with over 50 videos, and information guides, journal prompts, and guided meditations for you to reawaken your feminine essence, embrace your innate feminine superpowers, and operate in life, love, and leadership from a place of greater ease, magnetism, flow, and fulfilment.
8 weeks of deeply personalised, expert-led transformation, tailored entirely to you.
Spots require an application and a connection call. Not every applicant will be accepted.
The questions most women ask
The program is 8-weeks, but you will retain life-time access to all the online course modules, bonus resources, exercises, guided meditations, and journal prompts. You will also receive any content I add into the online course forever as well.
Yes, this program is designed for women who are ready to attract a high-quality partner into their life. If you are already in a relationship, this program may not be the right fit.
The program is designed to be flexible, so you can work through the online course modules and other educational and reflective resources at your own pace. I do however encourage those who do this course to attend the weekly 1:1 coaching with me and be fully present for those because the more dedication and willingness you put into these coaching sessions, the greater the transformation and breakthroughs will be.
Forever! You can access this course and all the resources for as long as you like. The access to the 1:1 coaching with Monica is limited to your 8-weeks in the program, however we can extend this if anything changes in your life. Our commitment is to you.
Good! That’s exactly why this program exists! Most women get stuck because they’re approaching love the wrong way. This program addresses mindset, patterns, and strategies all together, helping you create real, lasting change.
No! While you’ll learn strategies for attracting the right man into your life, the core focus is on you - your healing, your confidence, your self-awareness, and your energetic alignment - so that you are living the life and love life that you desire and so deserve.
You’ll receive hands-on guidance through the 1:1 coaching calls each week, direct access to me via my Whatsapp, and an extensive library of resources, such as my guided meditations, reflective journal prompts, and informational guides, which you will get access to for life.
Every woman who has taken part in this coaching program has experienced a dramatic boost in their confidence and clarity when it comes to dating and relationships. They also feel more deeply connected to their feminine power, feminine energy, and Queen Self. Many women have also attracted their dream partner into their life after investing into their love life through this coaching program and most will see shifts in their love life within weeks of starting this transformational work.
This program is an investment in your future happiness and the love life you deserve. If you’re committed to creating lasting change, the results will far outweigh the cost. Payment plans may also be available to make it accessible.
Matchmaking service. Graduates receive a preferential rate for Royal Matchmaking Services.
I can truly say I have seen a great shift in my outlook on relationships, my self worth & the way I have started to embrace my feminine energy, and I have Monica to thank for that.
Whether you’re looking to bring Human Connection Experiences into your organisation, invite me to speak, collaborate on an event, or explore the work for yourself, I’d love to hear from you.
monica@wadwa.com