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Your Past Is Picking Your Partner (and here’s what you can do about it)

Saturday 12th December 2026 · 5pm GMT · 60 minutes · Live & free

A free masterclass for smart, capable women who keep ending up with unavailable or unhealthy men – and are ready to understand why, and how to change it for good.

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Monica Wadwa holding her book Queen Treatment

You’re not doing love wrong. You’re running on old programming.

You’re successful and self-aware. You know how to excel in your career, your health and your friendships. And yet in love, you keep ending up back in the same painful place – with men who are emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or who treat you in ways you’d never accept anywhere else in your life.

The reason isn’t a mindset problem, a strategy problem or even a self-awareness problem. It’s a nervous system programming problem – and almost no one is working at this level.

In 60 minutes, you’ll discover…

1

Why you keep attracting – and staying with – the same type of partner, even when you know better

2

Why therapy, journalling and affirmations haven’t been enough on their own

3

How your earliest experiences of love and safety wired the patterns your nervous system still runs on today

4

How deep somatic reprogramming works, and why it creates lasting change

5

The four pillars of my HEAL method, and how they work together

6

Your first steps towards choosing – rather than repeating – your love story

Live attendees only

A surprise free bonus for those who join live

By joining the masterclass live, you’ll be offered a surprise free bonus. Joining live also means you can ask me your questions directly.

This masterclass is for you if…
  • You keep attracting unavailable, inconsistent or toxic men
  • You give a lot in relationships and feel depleted and unseen
  • You’ve done “the work” and still find yourself back in the same dynamic
  • You want to feel secure, magnetic and ready for healthy love
It may not be for you if…
  • You’re looking for dating hacks or a quick fix
  • You’re not open to looking inwards
  • You can’t carve out 60 minutes to be fully present
Your guide

Meet Monica

I’m Monica Wadwa – a certified relationship coach with a diploma in psychology and counselling, author of Queen Treatment and speaker.

I help women heal the patterns beneath their love lives and reconnect with their feminine energy, so that they can attract and build the healthy, loving relationships they desire. Everything I teach comes from real work with real women – and from the path I’ve walked myself.

Hear from women & men I’ve worked with

Sessions with Monica have been both expansive and deeply comforting. Her energy made me feel safe instantly. … The way she holds space invites a softening and a willingness to transform. … We worked through parts in me that were judgmental about my inner kid and came to a place where I respect and love that part in me so much! … Having sessions with Monica is honestly the best thing to do. I’m so grateful for the experience of being held and guided so powerfully yet with so much heart.

Airi

In one session with Monica, she was able to guide me to identify a part of myself that I was avoiding and rejecting – my relationship with my teenage self. My time with her, coupled with an embodiment practice, helped me identify this blind spot and open the door to mending that internal relationship. Monica was calm, patient, supportive and warm, making it easy to share openly with her. I would recommend working with her to anyone who is looking to mend their negative relationship patterns from the root cause.

Dario

Working with Monica has been incredibly rewarding in many ways. I have seen a great shift in my outlook on relationships, my self worth and the way I have started to embrace my feminine energy.

Justine, 33, Dubai
Business Consultant

Monica has helped me open my heart and mind. I adore how comprehensive and personal her approach is, and how she always adds practical exercises for the knowledge to truly set in!

Sesil, 26, Barcelona
Founder

I’d spent years understanding my patterns in therapy. But this was the first time I actually felt them shift in my body. I’m in a healthy relationship now for the first time in my adult life.

Sarah, 36, London
Marketing Director

Monica’s teachings have changed my life. After every session, I feel like my eyes have been opened to a whole new shadow side within myself, and with Monica’s coaching I can see exactly what I have to work on and how to do it.

Katrine

Sessions with Monica have been both expansive and deeply comforting. Her energy made me feel safe instantly. … The way she holds space invites a softening and a willingness to transform. … We worked through parts in me that were judgmental about my inner kid and came to a place where I respect and love that part in me so much! … Having sessions with Monica is honestly the best thing to do. I’m so grateful for the experience of being held and guided so powerfully yet with so much heart.

Airi

In one session with Monica, she was able to guide me to identify a part of myself that I was avoiding and rejecting – my relationship with my teenage self. My time with her, coupled with an embodiment practice, helped me identify this blind spot and open the door to mending that internal relationship. Monica was calm, patient, supportive and warm, making it easy to share openly with her. I would recommend working with her to anyone who is looking to mend their negative relationship patterns from the root cause.

Dario

Working with Monica has been incredibly rewarding in many ways. I have seen a great shift in my outlook on relationships, my self worth and the way I have started to embrace my feminine energy.

Justine, 33, Dubai
Business Consultant

Monica has helped me open my heart and mind. I adore how comprehensive and personal her approach is, and how she always adds practical exercises for the knowledge to truly set in!

Sesil, 26, Barcelona
Founder

I’d spent years understanding my patterns in therapy. But this was the first time I actually felt them shift in my body. I’m in a healthy relationship now for the first time in my adult life.

Sarah, 36, London
Marketing Director

Monica’s teachings have changed my life. After every session, I feel like my eyes have been opened to a whole new shadow side within myself, and with Monica’s coaching I can see exactly what I have to work on and how to do it.

Katrine

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Your questions answered

Is the masterclass really free?

Yes, it’s completely free to attend.

When is it and how long does it last?

Saturday 12th December 2026 at 5pm GMT. It runs for about 60 minutes.

Will there be a replay?

Yes, there will be a replay, and it will be emailed to you on 13th December 2026. We recommend attending live so you can get the most out of the masterclass.

Do I need to prepare anything?

Just a notebook and a quiet space. You’ll want to be fully present and take notes.

Is it only for single women?

It’s for any woman who recognises these patterns in her love life.

Let’s connect

Whether you’re looking to bring Human Connection Experiences into your organisation, invite me to speak, collaborate on an event, or explore the work for yourself, I’d love to hear from you.

monica@wadwa.com